on 02. Jun, 2011
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Damn it ,en. It’s time to step up our game. Last week my good friend Pete M wrote a blog called the real reason women can’t find a good man, about how women outnumber men making the odds of finding a man much harder. While my time in Atlanta confirmed this, I actually have a different thought process… Why the hell can’t a black man find a woman to complete him?
on 26. May, 2011
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The following blog was written by a reader who wanted to share her story. It broke my heart reading this.
Subject: He called me a “Dirty Slut”, but I define myself.
Have you ever been betrayed and feel as if your worth is nothing more than rotten brass? To care and trust someone so deeply and then have them spit fire directly at your heart? Your spirit no more in love with the internal beauty that once existed within? I regarded myself as a women with value much greater than gold. I was untouchable, impenetrable, available only in fantasy. Men didn’t have a place in my realm, my kingdom absorbed with an intelligent love – school.
on 23. May, 2011
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Written By Pete M. For BlogXilla.com
Have you ever said, “Where Are All The Good Men?”, “I Can’t Believe I Put Up With His Shit.” or “All Black Men Are Dogs!”
These 3 lines I hear 10x’s more than “I’m in love”. I am an early 30-something Black man living in NYC. I have 4 sisters and am in no way biased on my thoughts on dating. I can face it, the odds are completely stacked against women. Period.
on 16. May, 2011
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As I typed away on my the glass of my Iphone about how I wanted to stick it into her so deeply that it felt like someone was tap dancing on the bottom of her pussy in size 12 tim boots, I couldn’t help but think about how much I wanted her. If I could go back in time I’d would have never sent that text message. The girl who is slowly capturing my heart has a man. In the back of my mind I wanted to steal her from her man, because I know I could treat her better than him, I have no problem being boyfriend number 2, but there is something genetically build in most women that prevents them from sleeping with more than one person at a time.
on 10. May, 2011
I got an interesting email from one of my female readers, While I did give her some advice I thought the sexual intellectuals could give her some added advice. So read her letter and lets try to help her out.
I have been dating this guy D for about 9 years. We met when were in college (we went to different schools). We were just kicking it talking regularly, occasionally hanging out. From the beginning there has always been a connection that went further than the sex. After I graduated, my friends and I moved to a new city, which happened to be where he lived. We continued to date, but not exclusively. Neither of us was ready to be tied down, but again that connection kept us talking and hanging out and by 2005 we were hanging out all the time.
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